Advice...i have been played?

Sorry to hear you've been played. But, you must have suspected it for a while now, otherwise you wouldn't have done the things you did to check it out. I don't know why people lie about their real identity, but I've seen it a lot of times. You can either play him now, or just break it off abruptly. When I say play him, I mean you could get some satisfaction if you conjer up a plan to make him look like a fool. A little imagination goes a long way. But definitely, I recommend that you end it with him. After all, he's a compulsive liar and do you really need that in your life? Good luck Jen. Talk to you later.